No more hurt...
It's okay to be offended.
We expect one thing and get another.
But if you keep the offense for years like this girl?
Insult accumulates, then it poisons your life, claims and negativity begin. And as a result it is chronic illness, bad relationships, and loneliness.
In any case, the offense must be admitted, spoken and forgiven. Only after this calmness appear.
And then you can choose communicate with this person or not...
Find good even in bad.